You probably read that title and said, “Wait…what? I thought this was a website for youth workers about ministry.” Trust me, it is. And this post is for youth workers too. Allow me to explain.
Folding laundry is healing and relaxing for me. I love to do things in order and sequence, and to see something accomplished. So often in ministry, the work is never ending and we don’t always see things come to completion. In many ways this can be frustrating or discouraging especially if you’re someone who likes to see things finalized and complete.
For many years the grind of ministry and the ever-pressing weight of what we are doing became a burden that felt crushing. I would faithfully work with students and challenge them to not make the same mistakes and yet they would. We’d find ourselves teaching the Gospel time and time again (not that it’s a bad thing). The seasonal rhythms were always the same. The same issues manifested throughout the years. One thing would be finished but then there’s the immediate item following. (I’m looking at you, fundraiser followed by summer trips.)
That type of format can be draining for some, but especially for those who have been in ministry for the long haul and those who like to see things accomplished and projects closed. But then it hit me: what helps us have that sense of completion when we don’t always get that from our job?
For me, it’s folding laundry, finishing a book, baking, completing a home project, or exercising. I love to see things accomplished. I’m a list person, and being able to check things off or accomplish specific tasks is something in which I find a lot of satisfaction.
We all know that we are fulfilling a calling God has placed on our lives and that there will always be different seasons in ministry. I’m not saying you should find your fulfillment in folding laundry or finishing a book. However, I do know that God designed us in His image and He is a God who sees His plan come to fruition. If that is true for Him and we are created in His image, shouldn’t we also find joy and satisfaction in seeing things accomplished? It may not always be in ministry, but that doesn’t mean it is lesser or not important.
Therefore, I believe we should take time to complete things outside of ministry. Finding what works for you and brings you joy when it is completed is subjective to you, and that is a good thing. Knowing yourself and what brings you joy and satisfaction allows you to engage and find ways to recharge and fill your soul. So, go and fold some laundry today or do whatever else brings a smile to your face and joy to your soul as you see things completed and accomplished.
